My late maternal grandmother was born in 1922, just two years after women acquired the right to vote in America. I may have witnessed the transition from the days of AIM to iMessage, but she was present for a much more drastic shift. Whenever I was stressed or anxious about an event, obligation, or interaction, she calmed me down. Her dominant personality traits were intellect, charisma, and verve, and she had a quiet wisdom about her that grew more pronounced in her later years. I knew, after all that she had lived through from great personal loss to traumatic world events, that her advice was well worth absorbing.